31 October 2006

I am taking comfort and strength from you all

Thank you everyone!!! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you - for being supportive; and compassionate; and understanding; and patient. Thank you for letting me vent. Thank you for letting me mourn. I was at my sister's house last night - just dropped by to make sure she was okay and to take cookies to my sweet niece and nephew. I did the Italian thing - I brought food. What else do you do?? I spent the entire day yesterday making Halloween sugar cookies. I made them and Isabella decorated them. It was great therapy!! And then I went to my sister's with a huge container of cookies for the kids and we stayed for dinner and just talked and had a nice time together as a family - just the two of us and our kiddies. My BIL Chris was "smart" enough to leave us alone to our nattering and laughing and crying.

All the funeral details are done. All the details for prayers at the temple are done. Lunch is being provided. Now it is just a waiting game. Saturday seems so far away....

So I leave you today with this:



This is my sweet sweet niece Emelia in her pumpkin costume!! Really, I could honestly eat this kid right up!!

Happy Halloween everyone. Please be safe!!

30 October 2006

Shame on you!

I am disgusted with the media's methods - specifically the Vancouver Province. Shame on you for calling my sister and coercing her into giving an interview which you used to sell your papers! You had NO intention of letting a life long friend tell a story about a wonderul woman and her life. NOOOO. You just wanted dirt. You just wanted gossip. You just wanted to make money. And now my sister is suffering, again. And the Panghali family is suffering, again. Thank you, Province newspaper, for reaffirming the belief I have that people honestly are heartless and all that matters is the almighty dollar.

Funeral Services

Hello all. Details of the funeral services:

Saturday, November 4, 2006 at 12:30 pm
Five Rivers Funeral Home
7410 Hopcott RoadDelta, BC

Temple 1:30pm
128th St & 85th Ave
Surrey,BC

We are literally expecting thousands to participate. This is a beautiful and touching way to celebrate the life of Manjit.

Also, there is a $50,000 reward for any information leading to the capture and prosecution of her murderer. If you have information, you can contact Delta Police or the Surrey RCMP. If you want to leave your name anonymously, then you can call Crime Stoppers.

Thank you.

28 October 2006

26 October 2006

Thursday, Oct 26, 2006

Charred remains identified as missing pregnant B.C. woman Police said Thursday that charred remains found earlier in the week were those of missing Delta, B.C. teacher Manjit Panghali. (CP/HO) DELTA, B.C. (CP) - Charred remains found near the seaside have been identified as those of a pregnant woman who went missing from her family on her way to a prenatal yoga class. Police said Thursday the probe into the disappearance of Manjit Panghali is now a homicide investigation.

Panghali, a 30-year-old Grade 1 teacher, was reported missing earlier this week and her family held a tearful news conference begging for information about her.

Also earlier this week, police in Delta, B.C., just south of Vancouver, found a burned body near a container terminal. Police confirmed the body is Panghali at a news conference.

"This type of crime defies comprehension and the value of human life," said Const. Sharlene Brooks of the Delta RCMP. "We acknowledge that this is the most devastating to those who loved and knew her."

At the school where Panghali taught, teachers were gathered in a room to hear the sad news after the children had left for the day. Teachers from North Ridge Elementary filed out of the school weeping after hearing that their colleague's body had been identified.

Panghali and her husband have a three-year-old daughter. Her husband, Mukhtiar Panghali, told the news conference this week that he waited 26 hours to call the police after she went missing because he wanted to ensure she wasn't with family or friends.

Friends say the pair fell madly in love while both were studying to be teachers at the University of British Columbia.

Media reports have noted that Mukhtiar's brother, Sukhvinder, also lived with the couple and their daughter, but he moved out recently.

Sukhvinder Panghali appeared in court Thursday accused of stalking a former girlfriend over three months last summer.

Brooks said police have no suspects in Panghali's death.

"This investigation is still very much in its preliminary stages and police are not making any assumptions or drawing any conclusions with respect to suspects or motive," she said.
"This will be, without a doubt, a very complex and multifaceted investigation that will require all resources available to us."

Delta police are leading the investigation, with help from Surrey RCMP.

She is gone...

This MUST just be a nightmare. I am sure I will wake up any moment and shake it all off, because something this absolutely horrific CANNOT be happening in our lives. How can someone devalue and desecrate a life like that?? Two lives!! She was not alone... I weep for the life of my lovely lovely friend that was taken far too quickly. I weep for the life of a teacher; a mother; a wife; a daughter; a sister; an aunt; a best friend that has come to an end. I weep for the future of a daughter left behind who will never get to be raised by her loving and caring and oh so beautiful mother. But most of all, I weep because there are no answers at this time and we are left to our imaginations which are running wild with the most ugly and frightening thoughts.

Another Update

October 26, 2006 - 7:55 am By: News1130 Staff

DELTA (NEWS1130) - The emotional ride for relatives of Manjit Panghali will take another twist today. At Delta Police headquarters, the autopsy results of a burned body found near Roberts Bank on Monday, will be released.This morning, there are two different opinions on how connected it may be to the Panghali case. Police in Delta have so far refused to rule out the possibility it belongs to the missing mother. On the other hand, the Globe and Mail is reporting that the Mounties don't believe it's her.
Either way, her family is refusing to give up hope. Friends say they've been gathering volunteers to search the local green spaces, including Green Timbers Park in Surrey, where Manjit's car was found. They're also defending her husband who is facing growing criticism because he waited 26 hours to report his wife missing.
Friends say that is no surprise because the South Asian community doesn't always have good experiences with police. They also suggest the delay was simply an attempt to save face.

24 October 2006

Still, nothing...

There is no new news, and no more leads at this time. Manjit has been missing for 6 days now. Tomorrow it will be a full week. I am beside myself with worry and now I find myself completely fixated on this - where is she? is she okay? did she do this on her own? was she kidnapped? did a stranger do this to her or did someone she know do this to her? is she eating? is she drinking? is she safe? is she tied up somewhere? is she being assaulted? she is pregnant - is the pregnancy still viable? is she still alive? sooo many questions, and they won't go away.... No answers. And sweet, sweet Maya... My heart aches for this child. She wants to know where her mommy is. What do you tell a 3 1/2 yr old?? How do you ensure her life is as "normal" as possible when the entire world around you is collapsing??!! Again, no answers. Nothing. Just prayers. Constant pleadings with the Lord to help those involved resolve this - quickly.

23 October 2006

Update...

Surrey RCMP confirm they have found Manjit Panghali's car somewhere "in the lower mainland". They will not release where they have found the vehicle, or any other details at this time. Please continue to pray for her safe return. This is day #5 that she has been missing....


SURREY (NEWS1130) -
Surrey RCMP have confirmed 30 year old Manjit Panghali's car has been found.
Police will only say it has been found somewhere in the Lower Mainland
Manjit's husband was accompanied by half a dozen family members at a news conference to announce the finding.He made a tearful plea for any information into the disappearance of his wife of 9 years. They have a 3 and a half year old daughter, who they say has been asking a thousand questions about her mom as she watches the family deal with the pain.They're trying to shelter the little girl for now.
Meanwhile, RCMP will only say the grey 2001 Honda Accord has been found, somewhere in the Lower Mainland, but they wont release any more details to protect the investigation.
The family says there were no conflicts before she left, and they've called all her friends, with no luck.Police also say there's no connection with a body found in Delta today.

22 October 2006

PLEASE HELP!!


My sister's best friend, Manjit Panghali, is missing. She was last seen last Wednesday evening at 6:30 pm dressed in a black fleece pull over and black stretch pants, going to a pre-natal yoga class. She has not been heard from since. Manjit is 30 yrs old; Indo Canadian; 5'10"; 120 lbs; long dark hair and dark eyes. She is 4 months preganant. She has a 3 1/2 yr old daughter at home with her husband, MP. This is NOT normal behaviour for her. We are worried sick about her. We absolutely love this girl as a member of our own family. She and Laura have been best friends since they were 4 yrs old. They went to elementary school; high school; university; and got their teaching degrees together. This is an absolute nightmare!! Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers, and if you are local, and if you think you have spotted her, please phone Surrey RCMP.

Thank you.

19 October 2006

Nothing Cures the Rainy Day Blues

Like a big ol' pot of home made sugo bubbling away on the stove!! Just look at that crimson goodness!! And the smell... Heavenly. I grew up with my grandmother making sauce 2 or 3 times per week. I could not understand, at that time, why she had to do this. But let me tell you, the satisfaction that comes from eating something totally homemade and good for you - unbeatable!! And my nieces are coming tomorrow afternoon/evening to stay and they have never had MY homemade sauce (Marc's brother's children). They are in for a big treat! My kids adore this stuff. They know what is good for them!!


17 October 2006

Over doing it a bit...

Okay, so y'all know that when I get something into my head, I go all out! I know I have a bit of a compulsion about things.... Okay - a BIG compulsion about things!! So I have made another 2 dozen of these ornaments. I think I have about had it now, though. I have enough "samples" for my two upcoming classes. I can' t use this excuse anymore! I think in total I have made close to 3 1/2 dozen new ornaments in just the last few weeks... Wow. That is a new record for me!! hee hee

Onto bigger and better things. My house! These are the paint colours I have chosen to do feature walls and art niches in my house. I adore these colours! Very rustic. Very old colonnial, farmhouse kind of colours. Just the perfect contrast to the very modern decor I have. Marc has fixed all the little nicks in my walls and has primed them all. So this weekend I will be buying the paint and then letting Marc go to it! He is the MOST awesome painter!! Soooo meticulous. It makes me proud!! It is all part of the compulsion. Can't stop until it is done. And, this makes me the most excited of all - Marc has agreed to the gorgeous apothecary unit for our formal living room!! Yeehaw!!!!!!!!! We are going to buy it as a Christmas gift for the house! So now to hint to the parents and in-laws that $$ would be appreciated this year!! It costs a pretty penny, or two... Just like everything else in my life!! Nothing new. At least I am predictable!


Ciao all!!

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Ciao all!




14 October 2006

Saturday is a special day...

Not really!! hee hee But it was a home day for me today, and I did enjoy that. I was going to go to the States with my cousin and go shopping, but since I spent big $$ on my table, it kind of cut into my spending money. Such is life. Can't have my cake and eat it too. Although, I really do try!!

So I got it in my head today that I wanted to make home made canelloni. And I wanted home made pasta too. That is basically what I spent my day doing. I made my own pasta sheets, and then I made a spinach and ricotta and ham filling and my own sauce (which I had made a few weeks ago and frozen). Baked it all at 350 degrees for an hour. Man was it tasty!! But I made two pans... So I froze a portion and walked next door and gave a portion to my neighbour. Need to spread the love (and the calories!! ). Good day.

I am off to watch a movie. Have a good night all!

Oh, and Tammy - I am beyond relieved that you are doing better!! Hugs my friend!!

10 October 2006

Happy Tuesday

I am all "turkeyed" out!! Three full turkey dinners over the weekend was enough to do me in. But don't get me wrong - I honestly enjoyed every minute of it!! Especially my Aunt Fran's homemade pumpkin and apple pies!! YUMO!! To die for. Seriously. I don't eat carbs or sugar anymore, but I sure did indulge in this pie. It was sooo worth every calorie and gut pain that it gave me!!

But now it is back to reality. My week ahead is busy. Ethan has a Taekwondo competition on November 18th where he is competing in his forms and sparring. So we have "extra" lessons these next few weeks. Today being one of them. I have to work tomorrow and Friday - that puts a kink into my schedule! The nerve of the firm demanding 10 hrs a week from me!! hee hee Can't complain about that either.... I finally found a console table for my formal living room, and we are picking it up this weekend. I am beyond excited about that!! I will take a pic of it once it is in my home and all dressed up. I also found this gorgeous old apothecary bookcase with glass, etc. to put in my formal living room. I have been searching for about 5 months now for something to take the place of the shelves I have in the living room. They don't belong there. I hate things that are out of place. That is all I can see.... But this little "find" will cost me a very very pretty penny... Marc was not impressed. The console table is a go. The new unit, not so much. I am going to have to "persuade" him otherwise!! ;) I am asking for it as a "family" Christmas present for our house. Right now, that is not flying either. Sigh. I really need to be in the furniture import business. I just have this true love of good furniture. I am drawn like a moth to a flame... I am hoping next summer when I am in Italy I will be able to find a few things to ship back home. My second cousin just got married this past weekend and his new wife owns an Antique shop in Agnone - outside of Rome. I have great plans to visit her and hang with her and see what she can dig up for me!!

But for now, I am off to WM to buy bleach and laundry detergent and Ziploc bags. Ah, the glamorous things in life!! Keeps me grounded!

Have a happy Tuesday y'all!!

07 October 2006

More pretty things

Just can't get enough.


05 October 2006

Upcoming Weekend

Well, what I thought was going to be a fairly quiet Thanksgiving weekend has turned into anything but. We have 3 dinners to attend - starting Saturday night and continuing to Monday. Whoa. That's a whole lotta turkey and stuffing!! But hey, I can't complain. Quite the contrary. I am beyond grateful that we have so much family who live so close to us; and we have an abundance of friends who think of us and want to share time with us.

Of course, then I started to think of what I am thankful for. I mean TRULY thankful for. The list was long. Here are some highlights:

1. My eternal, ever loving husband Marc. I cannot describe how utterly amazing he is. You have never met someone so honest and upright in your life. He is compassionate and caring; he is intelligent (we are talking acing physics and chemistry smart!!); he is funny; he is kind; he is hard working; and he is oh so lovely to look at!! hee hee He is my love and my very best friend.

2. My children. Not for the obvious reasons. But for the subtle ones. My kids love to hugs and kiss. It is amazing. I never tire of hearing "mom, I just want a hug"... Or "mom, just a little kiss"... Melts my heart each and every time.

3. My parents and my sister who live only 5 minutes away from me. I cannot imagine life without them here.

4. My brain. I am thankful that I am a smart cookie. I am grateful to God for the skills He gave me. How I can organize and be on top of things all the time.

5. My freedom to choose - my religion; my music; what I watch on TV; movies; life in general. It is a gift.

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!! Happy Thanksgiving!!

03 October 2006

More Ornaments


I tell you, when I get something into my head, I go all out. So, I have been busy creating more ornaments. The combinations are endless = I am compelled to try as many as I can!! It is an obsession. It must end... But these are the ones I just finished. I used the flattened ornaments this time around. Adds a different dimension. Also a smaller size. Lots of fun.

I had some questions about where I will be teaching my classes in November and December. Unfortunately, they are private classes, and are already full - which came as a shock to me. I am just a lowly, little crafter - never thought someone would want to learn from me!! hee hee I am flattered. But more importantly, I am excited to make others obsessed with making these ornaments! Hey - I have to spread the love around!!

Hey Marc....

You are the BEST!!!

01 October 2006

I'm at it again

Well, I can't leave well enough alone. I am all caught up with my scrapping = I need another project. Christmas is not that far off... So here I am, making ornaments - already. This is the 3rd year that I have made these. And this year, I am teaching two classes on how to make these ornaments - one on November 2nd and one on December 4th. So, I guess by the time the classes roll around, I will have MANY ornaments to use as examples and even to give away as gifts/incentives! I really can't leave well enough alone....

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